בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אֱלֹהֵֽינוּ מֶֽלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם שֶׁהֶחֱיָנוּ וְקִיְּמָנוּ וְהִגִּיעָנוּ לזְּמַן הַזֶּה.

Bārūch atāh Adonai Elohênū melekh ha`ôlām šeheḥeyānû veqîmānû vehigî`ānû lazman hazeh

Blessed art thou, O Lord our God, king of the universe, who hast given us life and sustained us and brought us to this season

Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Walking with Jesus before Holy Week and Easter


One of my favorite Holy Land excursions, with both BYU Jerusalem Students and commercial tour groups, is a walk up the Wadi Hamam or "Valley of the Doves." This is likely the route that Jesus would have taken from Nazareth to the Sea of Galilee, and we always begin our walk with a devotional about the call of the disciples and then singing "Come, Follow Me." I like to imagine that we are ourselves following Jesus along this trail, walking with and learning from him.

One of my personal preparations for Holy Week and Easter is to start reading in the week before Palm Sunday (or even sooner if you are joining our Christian cousins in observing some version of Lent). I start with the accounts of Mark often called "The Road to Jerusalem" that focus on the three Passion Predictions (Mark 8:27–38; 9:30–37; 10:32–45). This allows me to imagine myself walking with Jesus to Jerusalem for the final week of his mortal life. While some Christians of high liturgical traditions do this by observing a formal period called "Lent," I would like to encourage you, and myself, to spend some time walking with Jesus in the coming weeks as we prepare to commemorate his atoning sacrifice and celebrate his glorious resurrection.

One standard text for Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent, is Psalm 51, a penitential psalm that "turns" us back to God (the Hebrew word for repentance is shuv, or "to turn").

Prophetic and Apostolic Encouragement

Several weeks before Easter in 2023, the First Presidency wrote a letter directing that only a sacrament meeting focusing on Jesus' atoning sacrifice and glorious meeting should be held on Easter Sunday. With more time for families on that day, they called upon to worship at home "to commemorate this most important holiday."



Then, in the opening talk of the April 2023 General Conference, in response to a First President Letter,  Elder Gary Stevenson of the Quorum of the Twelve said, 

The First Presidency’s letter caught my attention, and it caused me to reflect on the way our family has celebrated Easter through the years. The more I thought about our celebrations, the more I found myself wondering if we are inadvertently shortchanging the true meaning of this holiday, so central to all believers in Jesus Christ.

​Those thoughts led me to ponder the difference between the way we have celebrated Christmas as compared with Easter. . . . ​Our family celebrations at Easter, however, have been somewhat different. I feel our family has relied more on “going to church” to provide the meaningful, Christ-centered part of Easter; and then, as a family, we have gathered to share in other Easter-related traditions. I have loved watching our children and now our grandchildren hunt for Easter eggs and dig through their Easter baskets.

But the First Presidency letter was a wake-up call. Not only did they invite all of us to make sure our celebration of the most important event to ever happen on this earth—the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ—includes the reverence and respect the Lord deserves, but they also gave us more time with our families and friends on Easter Sunday to do so.

It seems we are all trying. I observe a growing effort among Latter-day Saints toward a more Christ-centered Easter. This includes a greater and more thoughtful recognition of Palm Sunday and Good Friday as practiced by some of our Christian cousins. We might also adopt appropriate Christ-centered Easter traditions found in the cultures and practices of countries worldwide. 

(Gary E. Stevenson, "The Greatest Easter Story Ever Told," Liahona [May 2023]: 6-9).

Over the years—first with the publication of God So Loved The World: The Final Days of the Savior's Life in 2011, then through this seasonal blog with ideas for personal and family celebrations, and at last with Greater Love Hath No Man: A Latter-day Saint Guide to Celebrating the Easter Season which I published with Trevan Hatch in 2023—I have gathered ideas on how we can better prepare for marking and celebrating this most holy season.

While Latter-day Saints do not observe Lent or even Holy Week as an institution, there is much that we can learn from the devotion of some other Christians as they prepare for Easter. In accordance with Krister Stendahl's concept of "holy envy," while we do not need to adopt the practices or beliefs of other religious communities, we can be inspired by their devotion to find ways to more fully worship God within our own faith tradition.

Here is an excerpt from Greater Love Hath No Man, one that gives the background of Lent and describes how some Christians observe it, and another that shares some suggestions for Latter-day Saints that might help you spent more time in the scriptures, be more prayerful, repent and prepare spiritually, and offer more service to prepare for Easter.



Celebrating Ash Wednesday and Lent in the Christian Tradition 

(Greater Love Hath No Man, 20-21)

Lent is a season of Christian observance that prepares believers for Holy Week. Among the many traditional Christian groups, forty days of fasting is observed over six, seven, or eight weeks, with Sundays excluded in Western Christianity and Saturdays and Sundays excluded in Eastern Orthodox Christianity. The origins of pre-Holy Week fasting date to at least the second century, with forty days (Latin, Quadragesima) of fasting being firmly in place by the late fourth century in both the East and West, as is documented by Egeria in her account of the preparations for Easter that she observed in her visit to Jerusalem.[1] While Romance languages still use words based upon the Quadragesima for this period, English and other Germanic languages use variations of the word “Lent,” signifying “season of spring” or “springtime.”

In Roman Catholicism and among some Anglicans, Lutherans, and Methodists, Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and ends during Holy Week on Maundy Thursday. In Eastern Christianity, Lent begins on Clean Monday. Both Ash Wednesday and Clean Monday function similarly. These are days of confessing, seeking forgiveness, and committing to an attitude adjustment of forsaking sins. On Ash Wednesday, a priest places ashes on the foreheads of Catholic Christians in the shape of a cross while uttering some version of, “From dust you came and to dust you will return.” The ashes come from the prior year’s palm branches, which we will see in our discussion of Palm Sunday below were used to commemorate Jesus’ triumphal entry. This practice by ancient Israelite practice, where ash was a symbol of mourning and penance (see Job 42:6; Jonah 3:5–6; Esther 4:1; Daniel 9:3; Matthew 11:21).

The activities and observances of Lent are symbolic of Jesus’ forty-day wilderness retreat. Jesus’ fast and abstinence during this time is the model for Christians as they prepare for Holy Week. Three areas of discipleship come into focus during Lent: (1) righteousness toward God, as manifested through prayer and repentance, (2) righteousness toward neighbors as manifested through almsgiving and charity, and (3) righteousness toward oneself as manifested in fasting and avoidance of sins and luxuries. This last area of focus includes abstinence of various carnal passions, weaknesses, or gluttony—individuals may choose to forego meat, sugary foods, alcohol, profane speaking, gambling, laziness, video games, frivolous spending, etc. In addition, many increase personal prayer and devotional Scripture reading in their daily schedule. The practice of fasting during preparations of Holy Week are based on Matthew 9:15: “The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast” (NRSV). In addition, to be successful while contending with evil and even casting out demons, Jesus said, “This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting” (Mark 9:29 KJV).[2] Fasting comes in different forms. Many Christians fast by eating one meal per day, allowing some flexibility for additional smaller meals for those who require it.

In some cultures, pre-Lenten festivities provide opportunities for merriment and indulging of pleasures before the beginning of the fast (and, at times, have devolved into sexual promiscuity and debauchery). The most well-known of these festivities is Carnival and Mardi Gras, which ends the day before Ash Wednesday on “Fat Tuesday,” also called Shrove Tuesday. Although these somewhat “wild” celebrations might have a negative conversation to us, marking a clean division between normal time and the special period of preparation for Easter is important. During the week prior to the beginning of Lent, Christians eliminate all animal products from their homes. They do this by making foods containing eggs, milk, etc. Consequently, eating pancakes on the last day of festivities before Ash Wednesday (i.e., Shrove Tuesday) became a widespread tradition in England, just as eating king cake became a tradition during Mardi Gras in Louisiana. Some participants bake a little baby Jesus doll into the cake. The person who receives the piece with the doll is destined for a prosperous year and might be required to make next year’s cake. Discussions during this last festive meal typically center on what pleasures each participant plans to sacrifice during Lent. 



[1] Itinerarium Egeriae 27.1–29.2 = McGowan and Bradshaw, Pilgrimage of Egeria, 160–65.

[2] The earliest, most secure manuscript traditions only read “by prayer,” omitting fasting. See Bruce M. Metzger, A Textual Commentary on the Greek New Testament, 2nd ed. (Stuttgart: United Bible Societies, 1994), 85. 



Suggestions for Latter-day Saints

(Greater Love Hath No Man, 29-30)

        Latter-day Saints do not have a history of preparing for Holy Week and Easter through practices such as Lent and Lazarus Saturday, but just as we love to get ready for the Christmas season each year, we can more intentionally prepare ourselves and our families through scriptures, music, decorating, and other traditions that we can choose for ourselves. Because Jesus’ entire ministry was a prelude for his great saving work, one thing we can do is to make his ministry one of the focuses of our study in the time between our celebrations of Christmas and Easter. For instance, after studying Matthew 1‒2, Luke 1‒2, and the Book of Mormon prophecies about Jesus coming in the month leading up to Christmas, we could then supplement our other personal and family scripture study by also reading about Jesus’ ministry from one of the Gospels.[1] While Latter-day Saints do not generally observe any kind of formal Lenten fast, we could certainly use our monthly fast before Easter to express gratitude for the life and mission of our Lord Jesus Christ and to pray for deeper, richer testimonies as we approach Easter. Being mindful of what we are preparing to celebrate can also encourage more personal devotion, greater charity, and more selfless ministering. In his 2018 Ash Wednesday homily, the late Father Peter Van Hook, pastor of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church in Provo, encouraged his congregation not only to think of what they were giving up for Lent but also to think of what they could do more during that preparatory period—he encouraged renewed, more frequent prayer, richer scripture study, and more service to others.[2]

            Just as we decorate for Christmastime, as the Easter season approaches, we can make a concerted effort to fill our homes with spring flowers; display prints of art depicting the ministry of Jesus, such as vignettes by traditional painters such as Heinrich Hofmann (1824‒1911), Carl Bloch (1834‒1890), Jacques (James) Joseph Tissot (1836–1902), Frans Schwartz (1850‒1917), and Harry Anderson (1906‒1996), as well as Latter-day Saint artists such as Minerva Teichert (1888‒1976), Simon Dewey, Greg Olsen, Walter Rane, J. Kirk Richards, and Liz Lemon Swindle;[3] and shifting the music we play, perhaps gradually listening to more religious and classical music. Just as many families gather many evenings in December for family devotionals to prepare for Christmas by enjoying Christmas stories, reading scriptures, and singing carols, many Latter-day Saint families might find that holding daily devotionals in the week or two before Easter can become another treasured tradition. For instance, the texts from Mark and John that we have discussed could be studied individually or read together with our families or with groups of interested friends, forming the heart of daily devotionals that could also involve hymn singing. Borrowing from the old Christian tradition of gathering around an Advent wreath for the four weeks before Christmas, lighting a new candle each Sunday and holding a devotional, the Huntsman family has started a new Holy Week tradition. We have created a flowery “Easter Wreath” surrounding a purple candle, a red candle, and a white candle. Starting with Lazarus Saturday, when we recall Mary’s anointing of Jesus, we light the purple candle that night and Palm Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, remembering the kingly phase of Holy Week in each of our daily devotionals. Then on Wednesday, Thursday, and Good Friday we light the red candle as well, recalling that Jesus is also our priest. Finally, Easter morning, we add the white candle to celebrate Resurrection morning.

While the greater part of this book concentrates on how to use the week leading up to Easter to prepare ourselves to fruitfully celebrate the atoning work of Jesus Christ, the scriptural preludes to Jesus’ last week in this chapter might be used to set the stage for our own journey through Passion Week. After starting with the story of the blind man healed in stages near Bethsaida on Sunday, family home evening the next day might focus on Peter’s confession, taking the opportunity to discuss the importance of a fuller, deeper testimony of the person and work of Jesus Christ. This could be supplemented with a conference talk such as the October 2004 address “Pure Testimony” by President M. Russell Ballard, a member of the Quorum of the Twelve since 1985 and that quorum’s acting president since 2018.[4] Because music can invite the spirit in a powerful way, consider singing a hymn such as “Testimony” or a selection from the Children’s Song Book such as “Search, Ponder, and Pray.[5] Then, after reading the passion predictions over the course of the next three days, the story of Bartimaeus could be the topic for Friday. Then the next day could cover the Bethany episodes, discussing the symbolism of the raising of Lazarus and the Mary’s anointing of Jesus and how they were preludes to Jesus’ final week. Families with young children might even enjoy baking Lazarakia together or having some other treat that would make the pattern of daily family gatherings to read, sing, and pray a fun as well as spiritual experience. These and other ideas for each of the days of Holy Week have been gathered together in Appendix H: Celebrating Holy Week—A Family Resource Guide.



[1] See for instance, Eric D. Huntsman, Good Tidings of Great Joy: An Advent Celebration of the Savior’s Birth (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2011), esp. 136‒37, 143‒47.

[2] Personal recollection of Father Van Hook’s 2017 Ash Wednesday homily (Journals and Correspondence of Eric D. Huntsman, vol 31.1, March 1, 2017, p. 1).

[3] For collections and discussions, see Dawn C. Pheysey and Richard Neitzel Holzapfel, The Master’s Hand: The Art of Carl Heinrich Bloch (Provo: BYU Museum of Art; Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2010); Ashlee Whitaker et al., Sacred Gifts: The Religious Art of Carl Bloch, Henrich Hofmann, and Frans Schwartz (Provo: Brigham Young University Museum of Art, 2014); Judith F. Dolkart, David Morgan, and Amy Sitar, James Tissot, The Life of Christ: The Complete 350 Watercolors, ed. Judith F. Dolkart (New York: Brooklyn Museum/Merrell, 2009); Daniel Zimmer, The Art of Harry Anderson (St. Louis: Illustrated Press, 2018), 10‒14, 188‒97; Greg Olsen, Wherever He Leads Me: The Greg Olsen Collection (American Fork, UT: Covenant Communications, 2002); Simon Dewey, Altus Fine Art, https://altusfineart.com/collections/simon-dewey; Walter Rane Fine Art Store, https://walterraneprints.com/collections/fine-art-prints; Susan Easton and Liz Lemon Swindle, Son of Man: Volume III, King of Kings (Seymour, CT: Greenwich Workshop Press. 2007); J. Kirk Richards, Fine Art Reproductions, http://www.jkirkrichards.com/wstore/product-category/fine-art-reproductions/.

[4] M. Russell Ballard, “Pure Testimony,” Ensign (November 2004): 40‒43.

[5] Hymns of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Salt Lake City: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 1985), no. 137; Children’s Songbook of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Salt Lake City: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 1989), 109.

Psalm 51 and Ash Wednesday


One of the standard texts for church communities that observe Ash Wednesday is Psalm 51. By tradition it was attributed to David and was cast as his expressions of penitence after his sin with Bathsheba. Like other penitential psalms (e.g., Pss 6, 32, 38, 102, 130, and 143), It is a powerful plea for mercy and forgiveness that can speak for all of us. Here are a few of my favorite verses from Ps 51:

Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness:
    according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.
Wash me throughly from mine iniquity,
    and cleanse me from my sin.
For I acknowledge my transgressions:
    and my sin is ever before me.

Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean:
    wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
Make me to hear joy and gladness;
    that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice.
Hide thy face from my sins,
    and blot out all mine iniquities.
Create in me a clean heart, O God;
    and renew a right spirit within me.
Cast me not away from thy presence;
    and take not thy holy spirit from me.
Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation;
    and uphold me with thy free spirit.

O Lord, open thou my lips;
    and my mouth shall shew forth thy praise.
For thou desirest not sacrifice; else would I give it:
    thou delightest not in burnt offering.
The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit:
    a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.
    (vv. 1‒3, 7‒12, 15‒17)

Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Epiphany

The Magi arranged before the Christ Child in our Nativity
Epiphany, or "Three Kings' Day" in Western Christianity," marks the end of the Twelve Days of Christmas. The word epiphaneia means "manifestation" in Greek, and it signfies the "striking appearance" or theophany God made flesh in the person of Jesus.  It began to be celebrated on January 6 for several different reasons in early Christianity. First, before December 25 was settled on as the day of Jesus' birth, some early Christians actually commemorated it in early January. In Eastern Christianity, it was the day of Jesus' baptism or new birth, when his divine status was attested by the sign of the dove and the voice of God. But in the Western tradition, it became the day that commemorated the visit of the Magi, to whom Jesus' divinity was made manifest by the star of Bethlehem.

Because the Magi were traditionally Persian wise men, very early Matthew's account of their seeking, finding, and worshipping the Christ Child came to represent how the Lord was made manifest to all nations.

Reading the account of the visit of the Wise Men and singing songs such as "We Three Kings," is a fun, but also potentially thoughtful, way to conclude our Christmas season . . . which we still try to prolong right through Epiphany. But reflecting on that episode and some that followed closely after it, such as the the Massacre of the Innocents, can provide opportunities to discuss such issues as why we give gifts at Christmas time, why is there so often sadness in this happy season, and what we can give the Savior.  To this end, I have included between the listing of scriptural accounts and some musical suggestions three excerpts from my Christmas book.

I have also added after the music section a couple of movie ideas, which work well for younger and older children respectively.

Scriptural Prophecies for Epiphany:

“I will also give thee for a light to the Gentiles, that thou mayest be my salvation unto the end of the earth.” (Isaiah 49:6b)

“And the Gentiles shall come to thy light, and kings to the brightness of thy rising.” (Isaiah 60:3)

“For from the rising of the sun even unto the going down of the same my name shall be great among the Gentiles; and in every place incense shall be offered unto my name, and a pure offering: for my name shall be great among the heathen, saith the Lord of hosts.” (Malachi 1:11)



Scriptural Accounts of the Visit of the Magi (see Good Tidings of Great Joy, 97–112, for detailed discussion of each of these episodes)
  • The Story of the Wise Men (Epiphany, Matthew 2:1–12)
  • The Escape into Egypt (2:13–15)
  • The Massacre of the Innocents (Matthew 2:16–18) 

The traditional Anglican collect for Epiphany reads as follows:
O God, who by the leading of a star didst manifest thy only-begotten Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know thee now by faith, to thy presence, where we may behold thy glory face to face; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord, who liveth and reigneth with thee and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.  Amen.




Sant'Apollinare Nuovo, Ravenna (Wikimedia Commons)
How the Wise Men Became Kings (see Good Tidings of Great Joy, 104) 

Matthew uses the term magoi for the special visitors who come to the child Jesus bearing gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.  Nowhere, however, does he number them, but because he speaks of wise men in the plural, there must have been two or more.  Early artistic representations depict two, three, four, or even as many as twelve wise men visiting the Mother and Child.  The number three seems to have become established because of the number of gifts that they brought.

More interesting is how the Magi came to be viewed as kings.  The possibility of their royalty might have been suggested by their wealth, since gifts they presented Jesus were worthy of a king.  But early Christians seem to have made the connection with royalty as they reflected upon certain Old Testament passages, such as Psalm 69:29 and 72:10, that suggested that kings from among the nations would come to Israel bearing gifts.  Particularly significant, however, were passages from the prophet Isaiah.  Connecting the coming of kings with the light of a rising star, Isaiah 60:3 prophesies “And the Gentiles shall come to thy light, and kings to the brightness of thy rising.”  A few verses later some of their gifts, and even the camels that were later assumed to be their conveyance, are mentioned: “The multitude of camels shall cover thee, the dromedaries of Midian and Ephah; all they from Sheba shall come: they shall bring gold and incense; and they shall show forth the praises of the Lord” (Isaiah 60:6).

While the various Eastern churches produced a variety of names for the wise men, by the third century the tradition in the West settled on the names Gaspar, Balthasar, and Melchior for the “kings.”  Eventually the three were associated with different continents and peoples, showing how all the nations of the earth come to honor Jesus.


Farandole (March of the Three Kings) - Mormon Tabernacle Choir


In Connection with the Slaughter of the Innocents: Sadness at Christmastime (see Good Tidings of Great Joy, 114) and my Christmas Resource page entry for "Childermas" on December 28.

The grief of the mothers of Bethlehem compels us to face a sad reality: what is such a joyous season for so many is often a cheerless or even depressing time for others.  As Elder Jeffery R. Holland has written, “For many people in many places this may not be an entirely happy Christmas, one not filled with complete joy because of the circumstances facing a spouse or a friend, a child or a grandchild.  Or perhaps that was the case another Christmas in another year, but one which brings a painful annual memory to us yet.”   To the list of those who have lost a loved one or suffered some personal pain, I would add those who are alone, ill, or chronically depressed at Christmastime.  Circumstances beyond our control often weigh heavily upon us, set in sharp contrast by the seeming joy of so many around us.  And sometimes the sadness we feel is simply the regret and letdown that comes when a happy time comes to a necessary end and we are confronted with the monotony or dreary routine of day-to-day living.

In his short book, Shepherds Why This Jubilee, Elder Holland concludes by reflecting on a sad Christmas in his own life, recounting the year his own father suffered a heart attack following surgery right before Christmas.  In the hospital early Christmas morning in 1976, facing the imminent loss of his father, the sound of a newborn baby jolted him out of his sorrow.  Comparing the joy of that baby’s parents to that of Mary and Joseph that first Christmas, Elder Holland considered the great plan of salvation that the Babe of Bethlehem, as the Man on the Cross, would effect for us.  He wrote, “Temporary separation at death and the other difficulties that attend us as we all move toward that end are part of the price we pay for birth and family ties and the fun of Christmas together . . . These are God’s gifts to us—birth and life and death and salvation, the whole divine experience in all its richness and complexity.”

Christmas may not always be happy.  But the coming of Jesus into the world that wonderful night made possible the great suffering, death, and resurrection of our Lord, which are the true tidings of great joy.  Hopefully we can ameliorate our own sadness by serving and giving to others, lightening their burdens and easing their loneliness.  Ultimately, however, we must with faith lay hold on the promise that joy—true joy without end—often lies ahead.


“Coventry Carol”
               
This moving carol is one of the only surviving pieces from a medieval cycle of mystery plays that was produced every year by the Shearman and Tailors’ Guild in Coventry, England.  In addition to usual Christmas stories such as the Annunciation, the Nativity, and the Adoration of the Magi, the guild also produced a scene about the Massacre of the Innocents.  A certain Robert Croo wrote some or all of the play, and hence the lyrics to this song, in A.D. 1534.  The haunting music to which it is now sung was edited and published by Thomas Sharp in A.D. 1825.
               
In this carol the women of Bethlehem sing to their children, trying to keep them quiet so that the soldiers of King Herod do not hear them.  But the raging king orders his soldiers onward, and in the fourth and final verse the women bewail the death of their children.
Lullay, Thou little tiny Child,
By, by, lully, lullay.
Lullay, Thou little tiny Child,
By, by, lully, lullay.

O sisters too, how may we do,
For to preserve this day?
This poor youngling for whom we sing,
“By, by, lully, lullay.”

Herod the king, in his raging,
Charged he hath this day.
His men of might, in his own sight,
All young children to slay.

That woe is me, poor child for Thee!
And ever mourn and say,
For thy parting neither say nor sing,
“By, by, lully, lullay.”



Giving Gifts at Christmastime (see Good Tidings of Great Joy, 106–107)

The gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh offered by the Wise Men to Jesus have served through the centuries as a precedent for the giving of gifts at Christmas.  Today we are moved to give gifts—both presents of worldly things and also gifts of the heart—to those whom we love at this special season.  While we often lose sight of the true purpose of giving, Jesus’ teaching that “inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me” (Matthew 25:40), implicitly suggests that when we love, serve, and give to those whom Christ loves, we are, in fact, giving to him.

Rachel helping Samuel with his lines as one of the three kings
In some cultures the example of the Wise Men is remembered on January 6, or Epiphany, which is celebrated as “Three Kings Day.”  On this occasion children often receive candy and toys in their shoes, which are left out the night before.   But a bigger influence on the tradition of giving gifts in the Christmas season was the legend of St. Nicholas of Myra, a fourth century bishop in a Roman town in Asia Minor, in what is now Turkey.  Although no evidence about Nicholas has survived from the time in which he lived, in the Middle Ages many stories circulated about his famous kindness and generosity.  Because he reputedly saved three young girls by secretly giving them bags of gold, his example became the model for anonymous giving, in line with the Savior’s injunction, “But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what they right hand doeth” (Matthew 6:3).  Nicholas also became the patron saint of children, and when his relics were moved to Bari in Italy in A.D. 1087, he and his story became part of Western European culture.  Thus his feast day on December 6 became the customary day to give gifts to children, and by the sixteenth century German children were hanging their stockings out on the eve of his feast day for him to fill with presents as he had given bags of gold to the girls at Myra.

The Protestant Reformation disapproved of the veneration of saints, so Martin Luther encouraged another incarnation of the spirit of giving in the form of the Christkindl or “Christ Child.”  Also known as Kris Kringel, this figure gave gifts on either December 25 or New Year’s Day rather than on St. Nicholas’ feast day.  Likewise, Henry VIII is said to have introduced a figure known as “Father Christmas” in England.  The Dutch, however, continued the tradition of St. Nicholas in the form of Sinterklaas, bringing him to New Amsterdam, later New York.  Through the writings of Washington Irving in 1809 and an anonymous 1823 poem called “A Visit from St. Nicholas” (later known as “The Night before Christmas” and attributed to Clement Clarke Moore), “Santa Claus” became an important fixture in American Christmases, from where he has spread around the world.

While we continue to give gifts to our loved ones openly at Christmastime and receive them in turn, there is something about the spirit of Santa Claus that continues to reflect and add to the joy of the Christmas season.  As famously expressed in a New York Sun editorial on September 21, 1897, “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.  He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy . . . he lives and lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay, 10 times 10,000 years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood.”   Similarly, LDS story teller George Durrant has written, “There really is a Santa Claus.  A Santa who knows that one of the happiest things we can do at Christmastime is to give something to someone without telling him who gave it . . . A Santa who enjoys getting the blame for things that make Christmas a time for little ones to have a full measure of Christmas joy.”

But in the midst of both known and anonymous gift giving at Christmastime, for believers the ultimate gift remains the tidings of great joy that come from knowing that God gave us his Son at Christmas time—and that Christ loved us so much that he suffered and gave his life for us.

My creche at work



Music for Epiphany

John Henry Hopkins, Jr., wrote "We Three Kings" in 1857, and it became one of the first carols written in the United States to achieve widespread popularity.  Although it is based upon the traditional identification of the magi with "three kings," a tradition that developed rather late, it seems particularly appropriate for a family celebration of Epiphany, especially if there are small children.





Other musical suggestions include Mack Wilberg's processional "Carol to the King."




Connected with idea of giving the Babe of Bethlehem gifts is the beautiful rendition of a Catalonian carol that Mack Wilberg published as "What Shall We Give the Babe in the Manger" in 2001.  Then associate director of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, Dr. Wilberg published this setting of the traditional Catalonian carol with an English paraphrase by David Warner.   The lyrics by Warner movingly connect the visit of the Wise Men at the birth of Jesus with the rest of the Savior’s ministry and with his saving death and resurrection. 

The first verse finds us with the Magi approaching the Baby, wondering what can be an appropriate gift from us. The second verse moves through Jesus’ boyhood and ministry, seeing him as the boy in the temple and the man teaching and working miracles by the Sea of Galilee.  The verse concludes with Jesus entering Jerusalem on Palm Sunday before carrying his cross on Good Friday.  Following a reflection on his resurrection in the third verse, the song resolves that the only fitting gift that any of us can give the Savior are tears for his mercy and love.
What shall we give to the Babe in the manger?
What shall we offer the Child in the stall?
Incense and spices and gold we’ve a-plenty.
Are these the gifts for the King of us all?

What shall we give to the Boy in the temple?
What shall we offer the Man by the sea?
Palms at his feet and hosannas uprising,
Are these for him who will carry the tree?

What shall we give to the Lamb who was offered,
Rising the third day and shedding His Love?
Tears for his mercy we’ll weep at the manger,
Bathing the Infant come down from above.




Movies and Stories great for Epiphany

  • "The Little Drummer Boy," a Christmas classic, is great for families with small children both because of the supporting role of the three kings but even more so because the drummer boy learns about true giving and the power of love.
  • "The Other Wise Man," a wonderful story by Henry Van Dyke, is a good story to read together or to watch as a DVD production (for example, as "The Fourth Wise Man"). 




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